Find Clarity in Your Love Life with One-on-One Coaching

Individual guidance with an expert relationship psychologist

Overcome conflicts, heal heartbreak, and build strong relationships

Flexible online sessions from anywhere, via audio or video
Online relationship counseling with psychologist Wieland Stolzenburg – personalized sessions in English or German.
Create the Love Life You Truly Want
Looking for someone who truly listens and brings clarity to your love life? I guide you through heartbreak, conflicts, and building fulfilling relationships with empathy and confidentiality.
With 13+ years as a relationship psychologist, I offer private online sessions to transform your love, partnership, or separation journey. Reserve your spot.
Relationship Conflicts
Separation & Heartbreak
Dating & Singles






Book Your Session Online
Sessions are via audio or video call, wherever you live. In German or English. Limited spots available. Counseling is only for individuals, not couples. Invest in clarity and guidance for your relationship.
Price: USD 500 / 60-minute session
Pay securely by credit card (MasterCard/Visa, all currencies)
Experiences with My Coaching
I’ve guided over 1,000 people through love, breakups, and relationship challenges, helping them gain clarity and move forward with confidence – here’s what clients say about their experiences.
Beyond Counseling - Talks, Books, and More
Alongside my one-on-one counseling, I share my work in different ways: In my TEDx Talk, I explain why we are responsible for our own feelings—and how to deal with them more constructively.
I’ve written several books on relationships, heartbreak, and self-help, each offering psychological insights and practical tools. My online courses provide deeper guidance on attachment fears, separation, and self-worth.
Wielando, my digital relationship coach, is an AI chat built on my knowledge and exercises. And through my newsletter, I share regular tips and fresh perspectives on love and relationships.






About me, Wieland Stolzenburg

- Author of 15+ books and bestsellers
- Online courses with thousands of participants
- 50,000+ newsletter readers
- Psychologist behind well-known German reality TV formats
- Living between Germany and Southeast Asia
- Check my LinkedIn profile






Contact
Curious if this is the right step for you? Reach out to me via email at wieland@lovestrategycoach.com, send a WhatsApp message or use the contact form below. I’m happy to hear from you!
You’re welcome to share your current situation and questions with me, and I’ll let you know if I’m the right person to support you.
Your Questions Answered
Each session lasts 60 minutes, and the fee is based on this timeframe. If you’d like a longer session, we can adjust the duration accordingly.
My sessions are open to everyone – regardless of age, gender, orientation, or relationship status. Whether single, married, divorced, or partnered, you’re welcome. People from any country can join, as long as you speak English or German.
You simply book your appointment online or arrange it with me directly. At the scheduled time, I will call you via WhatsApp, Google Meet, or FaceTime – whichever option you prefer. All you need is a quiet space and a stable internet connection.
Yes, I offer counseling in English or German (my native language).
Yes, everything we discuss is confidential according to legal confidentiality regulations.
You can pay easily and securely by credit card, using MasterCard or Visa in any currency.
Cancellations are free up to 24 hours before the session. After that, 50% of the fee applies unless the appointment can be rebooked.
I’m Wieland Stolzenburg, born in 1985, a psychologist, author, and relationship coach. For over ten years, I’ve been supporting people in navigating relationship challenges, processing breakups, overcoming attachment or loss fears, and building self-confidence. I’ve written more than 10 books, created online courses with thousands of participants, and work behind the scenes as a psychologist on well-known reality TV shows.
I originally studied business at the University of Pforzheim and the University of Westminster in London, focusing on marketing, advertising, and consumer psychology. Later, I followed my passion for working with people and studied psychology at Ludwig-Maximilians University (LMU) in Munich, with a focus on clinical psychology, neuropsychology, couples therapy, and solution-oriented counseling.
I’ve also completed extensive training in systemic couple and family counseling, Gestalt therapy, and hypnotherapy, and I continue to learn through workshops, supervision, and research. My approach is solution-focused and fully tailored to you. I aim to create a safe, supportive space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and patterns at your own pace – without judgment, pressure, or checklists – just clarity, depth, and real connection.